9.30.2008

Locked Up Tight

The present discussion between K and I are a CB6000. I have never encountered one in use although I have a few submissive friends with them and have named them various names like the Hellbringer, Frustrator, and some not so how shall I say cute names. He is over seas and at this point in time and discovered the joys of being apart from his Mistress, me.

The first time he was away, we hadn't met yet and we were getting to the getting to know each other stage which was fine because I go slow. I learned the follie of my ways by going to fast and learned it well so I go slow and carefully making sure the submissive and I are at least combatible for the basic needs of trust, responsiblity and temperment. Besides the longer the interview process the better you learn what the person is truly like. So we learned about each other in long emails, longer phone conversations, and after the first meeting we still communicated until the first session together which was almost perfect. You really don't strive for perfection but sometimes it smacks you in the face. In any case he's wanting a CB6000. Why you ask beause his hands tend to stray below his waist band on a frequent basis. This is not acceptable behaviour. Although he is allowed to masturbate whenever he wishes he is not allowed to ejaculate. That belongs to me, this being the case he feels he needs an additional incentive not to touch himself and the 6ooo is it.

So being a responsible type individual I checked it out. Discovered that as chastity devices go it's relatively safe and easy to use however thre is one draw back that causes me a small amount of concern. He not being circumsised must figure out a way to keep himself clean for weeks on end( his normal time out of the country is 6-8 weeks at a clip).

Also being the dominate type that I am I am amused at the turn of the events not at the fact that he has been masturbating without permission nor at the fact that he's been ejaculating without permission but the fact that he wants something to keep him from doing so. I guess it's different for women then it is for men. Although the abscence bothers me to some extent it hasn't bothered me to the point that I want to masturbate, something I don't do in anycase, however the thought of playing hasn't crossed my mind. It could have something to do with the fact that I am in the final weeks of obtaining my degree and basically with no time to go to the bathroom let alone think about sex and the lack thereof.

I am of a mind to insist that he not get one and just not masturbate after all if his hands do not stray past his waist he should not have the urge to stroke. One the other hand he is a a very sexual creature so perhaps he just can't help himself. I'm going to have to think on it some more before I come to a conclusion.

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