There are times I have a great deal to say about what goes on in my life and there are other times when I'm so busy I can't write about what goes on in my life. So be it. Life will intrude on a good time however the thing one must remember is that intrusions as well as playing it's all good because it is life. The alternative sucks large. I have a sub I visit from time to time and when we get together it's always an interesting time. We play, we talk, and we relax in each others company. The topic of this particular blog is when we play.

I am a sadist which means that there will be some form of pain involved in anything I do. Not necessarily severe pain but then again I like that as well, but normally it's moderate to mild pain involved when I put my hands on him. I have one of those signature things I do once I've achieved the ball elasticity that I crave it's called or I call it the rope trick. It's simple really I place thin either cotton or hemp rope around the base of the balls and wind a rope around it until there is enough space for only to the balls to breath comfortable. After a time they will turn either purple or extremely red. I do the same thing to the penis as well from base to tip leaving tip free to gauge the amount of blood flow that is there. We really want to avoid turning the penis black. This is not a good color for it. Even if the penis in question is that of a black man. The one thing that I have found as strange in the BDSM community is that I have never had a black sub white ones yes but never a black one. I really don't care one way or the other all I want is the submission of that individual..

Sorry back on target here. once both are a nice cherry red or going toward violet is when the fun begins. This trick does two things restricts the blood flow and causes serious pain when being released. between the penis and balls flopping around at high speeds and meeting occasionally in the middle, it can elicit a great deal of moans groans and an occasional scream from the ah victim hmmm I mean submissive.. Besides I like doing it. Now the problem came in when I met present sub. He had no extra room at all penis and balls were as one no stretch nor even space to place rope so I began him on a series of exercises to stretch the area. First it was hands only stretching the area in question then it was using the rings. You know the ones I mean you find them in Office depot, Office Max or Staples they come in a pack of 12 with a circumference of about 2 inches inside. Although it is touch and go with getting these on, as you add an additional one on each week they scrotum becomes longer and less thick which allows the balls to hang.

Now while in this suspended mode the balls can be smacked tickled, caresses smoothed paddled flogged and other assorted items. The interesting thing is using the whartonburg wheel on them one must be EXTREMELY careful not to break the skin because it has been thinned out considerable with the tightness on the of the binding rope. It is somewhat of a challenge to give just the right amount and no more. I truly hate playing with blood so I try to be very careful although sometimes accidents happen. However the reaction of a sub is actually delicious.

You also never leave them bound for more then 10 minutes fifteen minutes tops because being the responsible type you would like to continue playing with the aforesaid appendages. So after the spanking, paddling, flogging, caressing, smoothing comes the unwinding. I like to do it fast which makes everything kind of knock together repeatedly considering I use about six feet of rope for both appendages and walk away while it unwinds. I of course have put my sub in restraints so the only thing he can do is moan and bear it but it's always a fun thing to do when one is in company.

Afterwards there is the cuddling and praise for good behaviour and of course there is the satisfaction that one gets for torturing a sub and allowing yourself some pleasure. at the same time.

Alas these joys are going to be absent from my life for the next 90 days because my little one is going away on business out of the country. I think I am actually going to miss more then his balls and nipples for the duration.