The Joys of Blogging

K doesn't like blogging. He fights it tooth and nail each time he has to put one in the required space on Thursday. His claim is that he never has anything to write. My claim is that I don't care what he puts in it I want it done. He treats the blog like most people treat going to the dentist a necessary evil, that should be put off to the last minute.

I know he hates it almost as much as I do brussel sprouts, but then when I was young I was told they are good for you. I didn't believe it then and I don't believe it now, however parenting is a D/s relationship and you do what you are told when you are in the submissive in the D/s relationship. So, my thought is, I had to do it, he has to do it, and we'll both be better for it in the end.

This weeks bout of blogitis was probably more traumatic the necessary being the silly season is upon us and he has some job issues in the wood pile, but as I told him, those things are not my concern. His job is to please me and although he does a remarkable job of doing so, on ever level that we come in contact, this is one of his sticking points. However I am oiling it with a serious incentive plan.

As we all know there are consequences to each action and although he does give me a great deal of pleasure he is going to learn to obey me or it's going to get interesting. The first salvo into this realm of interesting consequences is not the usual flicker whip use 10 full force hits for each day it's late. Although that worked nicely K is a pain slut and we are trying to discover where his threshold is so giving him more pain on top of what is already sexual stimulating to him would not be the smartest idea I have ever come up with, so I had to go back to the drawing board to figure out how to make the blogs more attractive and make sure he got them in on time. I know the flicker works nicely and as punishments go it makes my juices flow thank you very much, but it also is not the best way to train a pain slut.

Pain is something that turns him on, so you do not reward bad behaviour with a treat ie flogging, CBT or nipple torture. You find the thing he/she likes the most and take it away from them or you make the act of achieving what he/she likes the most as humiliating as you possibly can, but allow them to get their hearts desire. The test will be coming in a few weeks and I will report back on what I have discovered in the way of my thought process working accurately or if I'm full of crap and don't know what I am talking about.


There are drawbacks to this plan of action one of which is knowing what is enough. Some go overboard with the humiliation part or the submissive discovers that the treat isn't worth the effort to reach it. There is a fine line between reward, humiliation and going to the extreme. I don't want to kill the boy I just want to teach him a lesson in learning where he is in my evolutionary scale. So the plan at the moment is to humilate him to the point of not wanting to disappoint me again, make the goal worth the effort he is going to put forth to get his reward as well as make him learn that although this particular humilation is bad there are others much worse that I could come up with that would be more so.

What is the punishment you ask? We are going to play a little game called blind mans bluff. The thing that K seems to enjoy the most is giving oral gratification and I must admit the boy has some skills in that area. Ok the boy has excellent skills in that area his job whether he likes it or not is to discover if he can reach his favorite area while crawling on hands and knees blindfolded with only the sound of my voice to guide him. It's going to be an interesting exercise for two reasons one his place is narrow the living room is nice size but small. The hallways are narrow as well so I am going to have to be extremely careful how I taunt him. Should be an interesting exercise oh did I mention his scrotum is going to be attached to a concrete block so even if he can move it it's going to be seriously slow going for him to reach me at any given time. Yes I know I am devious but then again I'm hunting the best submissive for one Domme and I know I have him in my sights just have to make sure he knows who is in charge of whom. So if you read this my little treasure Happy Blogging